EMDR

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EMDR is a non-traditional psychotherapy with profound effectiveness that alleviates trauma symptoms and assists with conquering daily life obstacles.

The method is extremely impactful, and while it may not be compatible for everyone, there's no event too big or too small for its transformative powers.

Go With That!

As a therapist who has been on both sides of the chair, I have not only witnessed with my clients over the years, but have also experienced the healing power of EMDR myself. It has proven to be the most effective model when working through the residual impact of traumatic events, as well as the most beneficial when assessing progress, as evidenced by decreased disturbance and improved quality of life.

EMDR is an 8 phase treatment model and it is quite different than traditional talk therapy (where it often feels like you’re on a merry-go-round relaying you story over and over again), where the focus here is primarily internal, while simultaneously using bi-lateral stimulation (sight, tactile or sound), with brief check-ins to verbalize what you are noticing. 

You will often hear me reflect a simple phrase "go with that" (or something along those lines) in order to allow space for the brain (lower part where traumatic memories are stored) to do the magic, without interference from using cognitive (upper brain) techniques. Research has indicated that trauma is stored in the body, so many times, we find that traditional talk therapy methods are not as productive or thorough as EMDR.

In 2021, Prince Harry was featured on a documentary with Oprah, "The Me You Can't See", endorsing the efficacy of EMDR approach! I now cheekily refer to this as "The Royal Treatment"-not only is this model good enough for royals, it's good enough for you!

View the video below to observe Prince Harry demonstrating the bi-lateral butterfly tapping technique:  

What is EMDR?

EMDR is an eight phase, research-validated model with over 30 million research studies support the efficacy of EMDR in addressing PTSD, c-PTSD, anxiety, and more. It has proven to drastically reduce or eliminate disturbance regarding historical or recent traumatic events.

Once both the therapist and client agree that EMDR therapy is a good fit, they start by exploring what the client wants to work on and identifying strategies to handle tough emotions and reactions when dysregulated.

As therapy progresses, the client focuses on and begins reprocessing a specific event or a cluster of experiences to navigate through negative feelings linked to those events. They also explore positive beliefs to show progress.

During sessions, the therapist uses techniques like eye movements, tactile tapping, or sounds to help the client process their thoughts, emotions, and body sensations. The client can pause the process anytime they feel overwhelmed.

EMDR weekly formatted sessions typically last 60-90 minutes, while therapy intensive sessions can span approximately 3-5 hours over several days. It can be part of regular talk therapy, used in tandem with other treatments, or pursued as a standalone therapy.

If you are curious about further detailed information regarding EMDR protocol, please visit the official webstie for EMDR at www.EMDRIA.org.

Discover how EMDR therapy tackles the lasting impact of challenging experiences, while integrating empowering perspectives for a transformative well-being.

"Processing" in EMDR isn't just going on a merry-go-round talking about problems over and over again; it's about creating a learning state to help you observe, digest and repackage experiences in a healthy way.

Trauma is too much, too fast for too long. Through EMDR, disturbance elimination id possible; the duration of entire treatment varies by client and their unique history, as well as consistency with engagement.

A healthier lens to qualify progress in when there is a reduction in intensity, frequency and duration when triggered, along with an enhanced capacity to manage reactions.

The comprehensive treatment includes a three-step approach to ease symptoms and address the full clinical picture: processing past memories, dealing with present distress, and planning for future actions.

8 Phases of EMDR Therapy Treatment

The following information outlines the 8 phases of EMDR in more detail.

www.EMDRIA.org

  • This phase generally takes 1-2 sessions at the beginning of therapy, and can continue throughout the therapy, especially if new problems are revealed. In the first phase of EMDR treatment, the therapist takes a thorough history of the client and develops a treatment plan. This phase will include a discussion of the specific problem that has brought him or her into therapy, the behaviors and symptoms stemming from that problem. With this information, the therapist will develop a treatment plan that defines the specific targets on which to use EMDR:

    • The event(s) from the past that created the problem

    • The present situations that cause distress

    • The key skills or behaviors the client needs to learn for his future well-being

    One of the unusual features of EMDR is that the person seeking treatment does not have to discuss any of his or her disturbing memories in detail. So while some individuals are comfortable, and even prefer, giving specifics, other people may present more of a general picture or outline. When the therapist asks, for example, "What event do you remember that made you feel worthless and useless?" the person may say, "It was something my brother did to me." That is all the information the therapist needs to identify and target the event with EMDR.

  • For most clients this phase will take between 1-4 sessions. For others, with a very traumatized background, or with certain diagnoses, a longer time may be necessary. In this phase, the therapist will teach you some specific techniques so you can rapidly deal with any emotional disturbance that may arise. If you can do that, you are generally able to proceed to the next phase.

    One of the primary goals of the preparation phase is to establish a relationship of trust between the client and the therapist. While the person does not have to go into great detail about his disturbing memories, if the EMDR client does not trust his or her therapist, he or she may not accurately report what is felt and what changes he or she is (or isn't) experiencing during the eye movements. If the client just wants to please the therapist and says they feel better when they don't, no therapy in the world will resolve that client's trauma.

    During the Preparation Phase, the therapist will explain the theory of EMDR, how it is done, and what the person can expect during and after treatment. Finally, the therapist will teach the client a variety of relaxation techniques for calming him or herself in the face of any emotional disturbance that may arise during or after a session.

    In any form of therapy it is best to look at the therapist as a facilitator, or guide, who needs to hear of any hurt, need, or disappointments in order to help achieve the common goal. EMDR therapy is a great deal more than just eye movements, and the therapist needs to know when to employ any of the needed procedures to keep the processing going. Learning these tools is an important aid for anyone. The happiest people on the planet have ways of relaxing themselves and decompressing from life's inevitable, and often unsuspected, stress. One goal of EMDR therapy is to make sure that the client can take care of him or herself.

  • In this phase, the client will be prompted to access each target in a controlled and standardized way so it can be effectively processed. Processing does not mean talking about it. (See the Reprocessing sections below.) The EMDR therapist identifies different parts of the target to be processed.

    The first step is for the client to select a specific image or mental picture from the target event (which was identified during Phase One) that best represents the memory. Then he or she chooses a statement that expresses a negative self-belief associated with the event. Even if the client intellectually knows that the statement is false, it is important that he or she focus on it. These negative beliefs are actually verbalizations of the disturbing emotions that still exist. Common negative cognitions include statements such as "I am helpless," "I am worthless," "I am unlovable," "I am dirty," "I am bad," etc.

    The client then picks a positive self-statement that he would rather believe. This statement should incorporate an internal sense of control such as "I am worthwhile/lovable/a good person/in control" or "I can succeed." Sometimes, when the primary emotion is fear, such as in the aftermath of a natural disaster, the negative cognition can be, "I am in danger" and the positive cognition can be, "I am safe now." "I am in danger" can be considered a negative cognition, because the fear is inappropriate -- it is locked in the nervous system, but the danger is actually past. The positive cognition should reflect what is actually appropriate in the present.

    At this point, the therapist will ask the person to estimate how true a positive belief feels using the 1-to-7 Validity of Cognition (VOC) scale. "1" equals "completely false," and " 7" equals "completely true." It is important to give a score that reflects how the person "feels," not " thinks." We may logically "know" that something is wrong, but we are most driven by how it " feels."

    Also, during the Assessment Phase, the person identifies the negative emotions (fear, anger) and physical sensations (tightness in the stomach, cold hands) he or she associates with the target. The client also rates the negative belief, but uses a different scale called the Subjective Units of Disturbance (SUD) scale. This scale rates the feeling from 0 (no disturbance) to 10 (worst) and is used to assess the disturbance that the client feels.

    The goal of EMDR treatment, in the following phases, is for SUD scores of disturbance to decrease while the VOC scores of positive belief increase.

    Reprocessing. For a single trauma reprocessing is generally accomplished within 3 sessions. If it takes longer, you should see some improvement within that amount of time. Phases 1 through 3 lay the groundwork for the comprehensive treatment and reprocessing of the specific targeted events. Although the eye movements (or taps, or tones) are used during the following three phases, they are only one component of a complex therapy.

    The use of the step-by-step eight-phase approach allows the experienced, trained EMDR therapist to maximize the treatment effects for the client in a logical and standardized fashion. It also allows both the client and the therapist to monitor the progress during every treatment session.

  • This phase focuses on the client's disturbing emotions and sensations as they are measured by the SUD's rating. This phase deals with all of the person's responses (including other memories, insights and associations that may arise) as the targeted event changes and its disturbing elements are resolved. This phase gives the opportunity to identify and resolve similar events that may have occurred and are associated with the target. That way, a client can actually surpass his or her initial goals and heal beyond his or her expectations.

    During desensitization, the therapist leads the person in sets of eye movements, sounds, or taps with appropriate shifts and changes of focus until his or her SUD-scale levels are reduced to zero (or 1 or 2 if this is more appropriate). Starting with the main target, the different associations to the memory are followed. For instance, a person may start with a horrific event and soon have other associations to it. The therapist will guide the client to a complete resolution of the target.

  • The goal is to concentrate on and increase the strength of the positive belief that the client has identified to replace his or her original negative belief. For example, the client might begin with a mental image of being beaten up by his or her father and a negative belief of "I am powerless." During the Desensitization Phase that client will have reprocessed the terror of that childhood event and fully realized that as an adult he or she now has strength and choices that were not there when he or she was young.

    During this fifth phase of treatment, that person's positive cognition, "I am now in control," will be strengthened and installed. How deeply the person believes that positive cognition is then measured using the Validity of Cognition (VOC) scale. The goal is for the person to accept the full truth of his or her positive self-statement at a level of 7 (completely true).

    Fortunately, just as EMDR cannot make anyone shed appropriate negative feelings, it cannot make the person believe anything positive that is not appropriate either. So if the person is aware that he or she actually needs to learn some new skill, such as self-defense training, in order to be truly in control of the situation, the validity of that positive belief will rise only to the corresponding level, such as a 5 or 6 on the VOC scale.

  • After the positive cognition has been strengthened and installed, the therapist will ask the person to bring the original target event to mind and see if any residual tension is noticed in the body. If so, these physical sensations are then targeted for reprocessing.

    Evaluations of thousands of EMDR sessions indicate that there is a physical response to unresolved thoughts. This finding has been supported by independent studies of memory indicating that when a person is negatively affected by trauma, information about the traumatic event is stored in body memory (motoric memory), rather than narrative memory, and retains the negative emotions and physical sensations of the original event. When that information is processed, however, it can then move to narrative (or verbalizable) memory and the body sensations and negative feelings associated with it disappear.

    Therefore, an EMDR session is not considered successful until the client can bring up the original target without feeling any body tension. Positive self-beliefs are important, but they have to be believed on more than just an intellectual level.

  • Ends every treatment session. Closure ensures that the person leaves at the end of each session feeling better than at the beginning.

    If the processing of the traumatic target event is not complete in a single session, the therapist will assist the client in using a variety of self-calming techniques in order to regain a sense of equilibrium. Throughout the EMDR session, the client has been in control (for instance, the client is instructed that it is okay to raise a hand in the "stop" gesture at anytime) and it is important that the client continue to feel in control outside the therapist's office.

    He or she is also briefed on what to expect between sessions (some processing may continue, some new material may arise), how to use a journal to record these experiences, and what calming techniques could be used to self-soothe in the client's life outside of the therapy session.

  • Opens every new session. The Reevaluation Phase guides the therapist through the treatment plans that are needed in order to deal with the client's problems. As with any form of good therapy, the Reevaluation Phase is vital in order to determine the success of the treatment over time. Although clients may feel relief almost immediately with EMDR, it is as important to complete the eight phases of treatment, as it is to complete an entire course of treatment with antibiotics.

    The Role of Past, Present, and Future Templates

    EMDR therapy is not complete until attention has been brought to the past memories that are contributing to the problem, the present situations that are disturbing, and what skills the client may need for the future.

Resources

Excerpts above from:

F. Shapiro & M.S. Forrest (2004) "EMDR: The Breakthrough Therapy for Anxiety, Stress and Trauma." New York: BasicBooks.

https://www.amazon.com/EMDR-Breakthrough-Therapy-Overcoming-Anxiety/dp/0465096743

http://www.emdria.org/about-emdr-therapy/experiencing-emdr-therapy

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